Notyourbaby

A lot of people asked about changing my nickname ,and why I no longer do explicit shows ( getting naked etc).The answer:
Because I am forever evolving and changing woman.Im doing what makes me happy,sure I ''lost'' a lot of people,but my happiness is a priority,I do only what Im comfortable doing.
I make my own decisions (concerning my own life) and do not need to explain myself. If this bothers you, angers you or gives you reason to judge me, your feelings of discomfort are not mine to resolve.
Things I'm going to do when I come online: I will say Hi, I'll talk, I'll enjoy a glass of wine with my friends. Thats all, nothing else.
I'm not going to ask or beg for tips (something I have never done). So don't ask/insist/beg to see things. It's not going to happen. No shows. No privates. Thank you for understanding.
I can give some advice to Cam Girls from my own experience .
• Don't do it for the pocket money, isn't worth it.
• Don't blow your money on expensive shit that has no real use (brand bags, clothes, expensive gadgets, luxury lifestyle) you will get used to a lifestyle that you won't be able to afford/sustain after you stop working.
• Do things you are comfortable doing, don't do things just because someone will pay you more money, or to please people. Set boundaries and stick to them. If you don't, then you will end up miserable, doing things and faking things that you aren't comfortable doing.
• Be honest with people (but be careful with revealing your real name,home adress ,any kind of info that some people might use to harm you).
• Don't sell your shows cheap. Be aware that you will end up being recorded and put online on several sites and other people are making money out of it. Those cents, few bucks aren't worth it when your image and intimate parts are spread all over the internet. And you cant stop that, and it might kill future job opportunities.
•Try to have fun and not play a role all the time.Its exhausting.And especially if you spend a tremendous time online why not enjoy it ? Its your time and your life,no one is going to give back all of these hours.Plus people (the right ones) will appreciate you even more,to see the real you.
• Before requiring respect, give it. Don't be grumpy, angry or cocky on cam. Don't treat people like shit and expect them to give you $.